When you are about to have sex with a woman, and your thoughts focused on erection, it means that emotionally you are in a “defensive mode“.
“Defensive mode” means you are not even focusing on a woman, you are focusing on yourself. But how can you get a strong erection, when you are not focusing on a woman??
In sex, like in a war, you have to go all out.
If you a soldier, and your objective is to break through an enemy defense line, you cannot do that while defending yourself.
If you are a medieval soldier, and you need to capture a city. Can you stay defensive and conquer the city at the same time? You take a risk and go 100% to reach this objective. You think about the pleasure you gonna get when you finally conquer the city. And if you worry about your safety, then you should have stayed home..
Same thing in sex. If you want to be all protective and defensive, maybe you should not have sex at all.
Don’t be afraid of failure, be afraid of regrets of not going out with 100% of your emotions.
If you gave your 100% to conquer a city, but failed to conquer it, then there will be no regrets. But if you didn’t conquer it because you hesitated, then there will definitely be regrets.
When you are in bed with a women, you should think about how you want to fuck her, what pose you wanna try next, what parts of her body you want to touch, grab, squeeze.. how rough you wanna thrust and etc.
If you 100% passionate in sex, then there is no failure, even if for some reason you couldn’t get it up. Failure – is hesitation, thinking about erection, beeing on a defensive. That is a failure.
Do you want to take that city or no? Do you want to fuck that woman or no? Decide once,go for it, and never look back.
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