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Your Shield and Sword to Conquer Sexual Performance Anxiety.

Not worrying about erection is not enough to actually get a strong erection. Not worrying about erection will allow to get an erection when you ENGAGE a woman in bed. What does it mean to engage a woman? It means to be

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What Kind Of Thoughts Should Be On Your Mind When You Have Sex With A Woman.

When you are about to have sex with a woman, and your thoughts focused on erection,  it means that emotionally you are in a “defensive mode“. “Defensive mode” means you are not even focusing on a woman, you are focusing on yourself. But

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Are You Avoiding Having Sex Due To Sexual Performance Anxiety?

Please answer the following question. How many times have you avoided having sex with women you liked, just because you wasn’t sure if you will be able to get an erection? Please, pay attention! I didn’t ask how many times

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How To NOT Conquer Sexual Performance Anxiety

Many men with Sexual Performance Anxiety make this crucial mistake – they try to find a way to get 100% certainty they will get an erection. In other words, they yearn for guaranteed erection despite the anxiety that they have.  But as a result

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How Sexual Anxiety Disrupting Mind-Body Connection

Why is it, that a man that suffers from sexual performance anxiety, never fails to get an erection when he masturbates? When he masturbates, he feels absolutely confident in his ability to get erection. No doubts, no anxiety. Emotionally, he is totally

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Why sometimes we choose NOT to be confident in bed?

A guy is about to have sex with a woman. He feels excited about the passionate sex that he is about to have and the pleasure he is about to get. He talks very confident with a woman; he himself is taking her clothes off.

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What do you want from a woman? (part1)

A key thing to understand for a man is what he wants from a woman. What is a woman for him in general? How does he look at her? A man may go out with a woman, because he wants her attention. It makes

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When we ended up in bed, i felt that i don’t want to have sex with her…

“When we ended up in bed, i felt that i don’t want to have sex with her. I didn’t like her anymore. I felt that she is not a source of pleasure, she is more like an emotional obligation. I

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Getting a strong erection, but losing it before penetration?

“When i am making out with a girl in a car, i always get a hard erection. I know there will be no sex, so i dont feel any preasure, and my erection is rock hard. But when i take

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Are you looking for a “mercy erection”?

Are you looking for a guarantee that you will get an erection at the right moment? Who do you ask to fulfill this guarantee? And if you create an erection yourself, then why do you need a guarantee? If the erection isn’t made by you, then who makes it? Your body?Then probably you

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