Not worrying about erection is not enough to actually get a strong erection.
Not worrying about erection will allow to get an erection when you ENGAGE a woman in bed. What does it mean to engage a woman? It means to be emotionally active, knowing what you want from her in a sexual way and going after it. That’s when you get a strong erection.
But many guys don’t allow themselves to go for what they want in bed. They are scared that, if they show their passion, turn a woman on, and then will realize they still couldn’t get it up… That’s why many guys don’t engage at all, they try to protect themselves instead. They behave very passive in bed and very cautiously. These guys try not to worry about erection, but even if they manage “not to worry”, this alone doesn’t give them erection, or it doesn’t give as hard an erection as they want.
A man must:
Not think about erection PLUS be emotionally active in bed
And the result will be a strong erection and passionate sex.
Important point. Why do i choose not think about erection? Is it in order to make it easier to get it up? Wrong!!! I choose not to think about erection in order to be emotionally independent.
If you try not to worry about erection, because you think it will make it easier to get it up, then you are still emotionally dependent person. You must not worry about erection because it is your PRINCIPLE!
I will give you another example:
Many people say, that women like men who are confident. But confidence alone doesn’t let you have more women. You can sit at home and be confident as long as you desire. It is the confidence + Engagement that gives you results. You have to go out, meet women, bring them home and etc. And then you will see result.
On another hand, engagement alone won’t bring you results either. If you engage with woman, but lack confidence, you will be rejected time after time.
Having confidence in bed(not worrying about erection), and confidence when you meet women, is like having a Shield in a battle. And your engagement is like having a Sword.
You cannot do much just having a shield. But if you go only with a sword, you may get wounded.
You must use both.
Great stuff!